MBBS (Bachelor of medicine and bachelor of surgery ) the most inspiring and attractive word for me throughout my whole childhood. But it becomes toughest on 5th June 2015 when the first time I was successfully failed to get an eligible rank in my West Bengal joint entrance examination for medical. Though the word inspiring was existing in my life for MBBS. I desperately accumulate all my courage and restart my preparation to crack the same examination for the next year. And that time I successfully able to get the entry in my childhood wish. I was started my journey as an MBBS student at the BURDWAN MEDICAL COLLEGE, WEST BENGAL and from the beginning of that, I was an active part of the world medical association.
‘Doctor Babu ‘when I heard the word indicating to me for the first time it was such a pleasure to feel that astounding feeling. In the first year one day I went to visit the hospital for the first time with my white apron. Then a short height, an unhygienic man came towards me and ask for ECG room. But at that time I was not able to help that man because I also didn’t know this. As a doctor, my duty was to help that man.
A healthy doctor patients relationship is the most important part of treatment. Healthy means professional. Some foremost characters should have to be developed to become a successful doctor. At first, a doctor must have to be helpful towards his patients but obvious within his professional limit. Secondly, justice with patients, equality among patients, and equal division of limited resources only and only based on priority need and next one is fidelity means the ability to truths about our each and every action because mistakes are forgiven but lies are strongly punishable. We must have to be understood that patients are not help-seeking rather we are the help provider.
Doctor patients relationships are of different types. One may be doctor-centric in which doctors are superior and patient must have to follow doctors advice and another one is patients centric in this doctors are flexible in their point of views and they give opportunities to his patients to choose their options.
A doctor can play different roles in appearance to influence his patients. We must have to be flexible in our behavior and it will be the strongest ladder to achieve effective care. The term ‘placebo’ is a substantial term conjoin with the medical profession. Sometimes we have to use strongly directive approach to make better treatment. Some pessimistic patients are not aware of their health so they ignore the treatment process. It is our duty to strongly put our advice and make the better health of the patient. But as besides this, it is also important to remember that the right to refuse is the personal choice of the patient. We can’t pressurize them in any aspect rather we can motivate them. As a good doctor, we have to use tremendous politeness and respect during the treatment of geriatric patients and it is an appropriate doctor-patient relationship. Another one is protectively paternalistic approach and this is maximally used in pediatric treatment. A doctor can advise his patients by gathering kindness, protection, strength, and patience. Because pain is the fearest foe of a child and as a doctor, our responsibility is not to destroy the fear but to achieve the power to fight against it so that he can tolerate it in his upcoming life. Some other aspect is the supportively directive approach. In this type, doctors believe in patient’s choice along with providing reassurance and guidance. Another example of the perfect doctor-patient relationship is the relationship between doctor and female patients. Most of the female patients always choose female gynecologists for their treatment but as a male doctor also our duty is to provide equal safety and security to them so they can trust us . A doctor can play an active role in the treatment of terminally ill patients. As a doctor, our responsibility not only in cure purpose but also provide the hand in care. In the case of terminally ill patients, we can’t stop our treatment by accepting upcoming death but it is our duty to provide a peaceful death to our patients.
Relationship means the mutual connection between two peoples. So both sides effort is necessary to make a relationship healthy. Patients also have to believe in the doctor to make the relationship more trustworthy. Some people told that feel your patients as your family members but I think rather it is important to feel our family members as our patients when they suffer from disease because a professional relationship can handle effective treatment rather than a coherent relationship. As besides the importance of establishing relationships, it is also important to perfectly terminate our relationship with our patients because we can’t expose us as available and as sympathetic so that we become emotional during termination.
As a future doctor, I will definitely maintain these in my working phase and I wish my other co-workers who are reading this may also influence through my words.